unreal feeling

why chatting is interesting?

i found many things in chatting online. learnt many things also. that world not always clean and honest. that nice nick names could not always be trusted. that there are some sincere people among those jurk and bad people in chat. learnt how to write unproper english and find new vocabs and terms. learnt how the people live in the other part of the world. learnt how to become more patient and tolerance toward others. learn from the stranger how they live, culture and how they face their life and how they fix the problems.

ever heard about girls who want money from their chat mates? or .. ever heard guys who always act crazy? or you might find a vice president of a security company in hongkong, a humble, honest, busy and smart guy who send you a postcard from his typical wet country of ireland? or you might find another guy, an agency leader who always enjoy working and analysis, and what's in his mind is always his business, sales, goals and quota, either day or night, nothing else, who always has wise solution for every problem. or you might find a scientist who work as english teacher and teach you many things about chinese people and culture, who feel that he is a chinese (who) trapped in a white man body.


but how do you believe your feeling on the net?

a wise lesson i got is : do not rely too much on the net friends. it is good to live in a fantasy world (read : net) in the security of anonymity, and long distance and convenience. feel how free you can express yourself and be yourself. share about everything you want to and exchange ideas with some strangers.

as two souls keep communicate with each other, feeling may grow, liking may grow. but the chance of success is too slim. it is a fantasy world. also ldr (long distance relationship) is dangerous and impractical. chances of success is rather slim and be down to earth. do show care and concern for every body but no feelings. if you find someone interesting and care for you, it is normal but some people may react differently. they may interpret it as feelings .. for him or her ..

one thing you must remember is not to believe your feeling on the net. because all those feeling were fake and unreal .. until you meet him/her and use your 5 senses to proof that your feeling is real :)

so in the mean time, just be friends and nothing feeling attached :)

my special thanks to niall, t-bone and leonard my dear fake brother


proverbs 22:1 says :
a good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.